Marriage and Ministry (2)(d): Emotional connection

So far in looking at what the key foundations are in a strong marriage I’ve looked at:

 a) Commitment

b) Our own Christian character

c) Our Christian family

I also think we need emotional connection with our husbands.  When we read the Genesis passage about marriage, it is easy to overlook this verse: “The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.” (Genesis 2.25) and also the idea expressed by this verse: “This is my beloved and this is my friend.” Song of Songs 5:16.  Both these verses paint a picture of profound intimacy, closeness and connection.  An emotionally connected marriage is one where there is a deep and abiding friendship between the couple.

Reflection:

Is this your experience in your marriage?

·      If yes, What do you love and appreciate about your marriage – spend time thinking about this and then find a time to tell your husband what you love and appreciate about your marriage.

·      If no, spend time thinking about what you think is hindering this emotional connection.  If you are not good at thinking and self-reflection, this might be the kind of question you might want to talk about with a safe friend or an older woman who you trust.  It might help you identify what it is that is disconnecting you and your husband.